I was reading all these Christian romantice lovely marriage books today and there was some pretty kinky stuff in them.

there was one called something like "101 way to show him you love him" and it had stuff like "wait until he takes a shower and get in with him as a surprise" and "go camping in a secluded area, make sure there is a pond for skinny dipping!" and all kinds of talk about being intimate. half the marriage books are about sex. but ironically, half the womens books are about how to deal with your husbands "secret struggle" (porno)... how can a youth like me find a healthy relationship! i'm so confused. sex is no big deal, unless it's a really big deal. this is pretty wack. internet love is creepy too... creepy creeps with their computers... creepy...

although sometimes reality becomes skewed when you see pics of hotties like Cowika and Purekitte... damn hot internet bastards...

I have a question to all the party people out there...

what is the deal with friends lists on LJ? Is it LJ ediquette to add someone to your buddy list if they add you to theirs? most friends and friends of are exactly the same. i added people to mine because i wanted to read their journals alot and i wanted them right there, easy to get to. the majority added me to theirs... The question still stands though.

do you have to add someone if they add you? i know the obvious answer is no, but it kinda seems nice and friendly.... any thoughts?

Cowika just commented in MY LJ! God Bless Internet Love Songs...